Premature ejaculation is basically a common complaint of many young men. Many of their partners feel very frustrated by this situation too. Young men oftenly become very sexually aroused quite quickly; touch their hand and they have an erection. While this is the flattering for his partner, it’s not essentially very satisfying for a sexual relationship.
By the way, the average male takes less than the three minutes from the time of insertion until he ejaculates. According to the technical definition, premature ejaculation is ejaculation that occurs at prior to the when a man wishes or too quickly during intercourse to satisfy the partner. This typically leads to the loss of a usable erection for the simple reason that their discharge has temporarily released a state of elevated sexual tension.
What can a guy do? There are a few very simple things that will really help: First, he can masturbate before he goes out with his partner and this will make him really able to last longer. (Just a idea, but it does work). Understanding male sexual responses helps and If a guy ejaculates more quickly, he is going to lose his erection, and this “refractory phase” will last about of fifteen to twenty five minutes in a young man. There is actually nothing either person can do to trigger to another erection.
During the refractory phase then he can stimulate his partner by including: kissing, cuddling, hugging, petting, stimulating her breasts and genitals. After twenty minutes of stimulation she may be very sexually aroused and he will surely probably have another erection.As a guy ages, his refractory phase gets much longer. Many guys learn to control the ejaculation by practicing the Kegel exercises" on a regular basis. Go to Kegel Exercises for more on doing those.
Women often feel that they should be in fact able to do something to “help” him or that they are doing something very wrong. Essentially, this is his 'situation', and he needs to solve it himself. But, you can talk to him about it and lessen the expectation that he must sexually satisfy you every time.
